BRIANNE DAVIS
RELATIONSHIP & ACCOUNTABILITY COACH

When you're stuck in unhealthy patterns—whether it's toxic relationships, self-sabotage, addictive relationship behaviors, or battling intense internal conflict—it can feel like you’re constantly fighting an uphill battle. But here’s the thing: you don’t have to keep repeating those cycles. I know what it feels like to be stuck in relationships that drain you—relationships that tug at your soul, drain your energy, and leave you chasing the high of validation, only to crash when reality hits. I’ve been pulled into toxic connections, into the drama, and into the emotional rollercoaster that can make you feel alive one minute and empty the next. Relationships can feel like any other compulsive pattern—they seem to fill the void at first, but over time, they erode your sense of self. I get it. I’ve walked that painful road of breaking free.
This program isn’t about fixing you; it’s about uncovering the strength that’s always been there. Through my 14-step coaching framework, we’ll examine the underlying relational patterns behind your struggles—whether it’s the pull of unhealthy dynamics, codependency, or family-of-origin patterns. We’ll work at the core level. It’s about owning your story, understanding your past, but not being defined by it. There is no freedom in pretending these patterns aren’t there. You can’t change what you refuse to face.
We’ll look at how your past influences your present and why you’ve ended up in situations that feel like a constant tug-of-war. We’ll explore long-standing relational patterns and attachment dynamics that keep you cycling through emotional highs and lows.
I’ve worked with thousands who’ve been where you are. I’ve seen firsthand the toll that toxic relationships take, but I’ve also witnessed the power of real change—people reclaiming their peace, self-worth, and ability to build healthy relationships.
This program is for you if you’re tired of barely getting by. If you’re done living for the next hit of affection or validation that only leaves you empty. If you want to break destructive cycles and learn to build lasting self-respect and healthy connections.
The truth is, nothing changes unless you change. You can keep waiting for things to shift, or you can start doing the work today. I’ll be right there with you, guiding you step by step—helping you clear out old patterns, face difficult truths, and build a life that no longer revolves around toxic, draining relationships.
You’ve got nothing to lose—except the patterns that are holding you back. So let’s dive in, get to work, and start making the changes that will move you forward.
ICA Certified Coach
Certified Dialectical Behavior Therapy Professional (C-DBT)
Trauma-Informed Certified
Recovery Coach and Case Manager
Collaborates with International Rehabs and IOPs
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Brianne’s work is rooted in compassion, confidentiality, and a personalized approach tailored to each individual’s goals. She has developed a comprehensive 14-step coaching framework designed to guide clients through meaningful growth and personal transformation, no matter their background or current situation. This structured process helps individuals identify and address core relational patterns, break free from unhealthy dynamics, and build a foundation for healthier relationships.
At the heart of Brianne’s approach is the belief that lasting change comes from understanding and integrating the different parts of ourselves. She draws inspiration from widely recognized psychological and relationship frameworks, including:
Brianne creates a supportive, non-judgmental space where clients can explore long-standing patterns, reduce shame, and develop healthier relational habits. Her blend of lived experience and coaching expertise allows her to connect deeply with clients, empowering them to reclaim their voice and move toward the life and relationships they want to build.
Whether someone is navigating heartbreak, relationship anxiety, self-sabotaging behaviors, or long-standing patterns of codependency, Brianne’s 14-Step coaching framework provides a clear, structured path toward meaningful change. Through this process, clients gain practical tools and confidence to create stronger relationships and a more aligned life.

Our individual process of relational growth is complex. It is patterned and influenced by a series of recurring interactions shaped both consciously and unconsciously by you. While it may feel as though you’ve been a victim of circumstances in your external environment, it’s also important to examine how your own responses may reinforce unhealthy dynamics. This does not dismiss the reality that many people participating in difficult patterns have experienced deeply painful, and at times overwhelming, life situations. It simply creates space to explore the possibility of writing a new narrative for the rest of your life.
Individual coaching can take place once a week or multiple times per week, depending on your goals and what is realistically sustainable. Coaching is a structured, goal-oriented process. It helps clarify areas for growth, and together we create a practical plan of action.

Couples coaching often has a broader and more multi-dimensional focus. When working with couples, goals shift based on the nature and intensity of the situation. For some, coaching marks the closing chapter of a deeply tumultuous relationship that requires intentional rebuilding and recalibration. For others, it serves as fine-tuning key relational goals to improve communication and connection. Whatever your collective goals, we ensure they are manageable, realistic, action-oriented, and grounded in mutual accountability. A couple system requires two active participants
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My work with couples includes an individual coaching component. Individual reflection and assessment are important in building a strong couples framework. As a neutral facilitator, I step into the partnership process and help you reframe and redefine your experience of one another. Couples coaching is designed to be time-bound and goal-oriented.
We assess progress regularly and adjust based on both individual and shared participation. The goal is not to create a perfect relationship, but to develop healthier ways of navigating difficult situations together.
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Written by Brianne Davis
Amazon #1 Best Seller
Imagine if Sex and the City's Samantha discovered she was an addict and her drug of choice was MEN. Go on a hilarious, inspiring, and at times, shocking journey as Roxanne conquers her fears, changes her ways, gets closer to healthy relationships and begins loving herself a little more each day.
In this unique roman à clef novel, Brianne Davis shares her own intimate experience with the transformational power of recovery, providing strength and hope for anyone who wants to change their life forever.
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“WOW! THIS BOOK! What a wild, raw, and as author Brianne Davis says, totally gnarly ride about a Hollywood sex addict—and her inspiring journey toward self-love, personal growth, and healing. It’s so different from what I usually read, but I really enjoyed it, and highly recommend you pick up a copy.”
—Emily Giffin, New York Times Best-Selling Author of The Lies That Bind
“A powerful, raw and vulnerable read. Brianne wrote a witty and captivating roman à clef novel based on her own bottoming out as a sex and love addict. I applaud her for going deeper to help others understand the often-misunderstood disease of sex and love addiction.”
—OLIVIA MUNN, actress, The Newsroom, X-Men: Apocalypse

Written by Brianne Davis
Now available on Amazon
A darkly hilarious novel about toxic relationship recovery, emotional sobriety, and becoming your own soulmate.
Roxie thought hitting bottom was the worst day of her life.
Turns out, the real nightmare starts when the chaos stops—because now she has to deal with the one person she’s been avoiding for decades: herself.
She survived the chaos. Now she has to survive herself.
In Becoming My Own F-ing Soulmate, Roxie is learning to live without the toxic relationships that once functioned like emotional caffeine. No more disaster men. No more intensity disguised as chemistry. Now it’s just her, the quiet, and her recovery tribe: CoolGirl fighting charm addiction, GlamGirl rebuilding a life she torched twice, TattooGirl hanging on by a thread, Alice insisting she’s “fine,” and Dr. Kath dismantling denial one uncomfortable truth at a time.
With no drama left to hide behind, every unresolved wound comes roaring to the surface. Dating turns into a full-contact sport of ghosters, love-bombers, self-proclaimed spiritual gurus, and one man who brings his emotional support tarot deck. And when “Mr. Handsome” arrives—stable, grounded, and emotionally available—Roxie spirals into the most uncomfortable territory of all: real intimacy.
She’s the one she keeps abandoning.
“Smart, raw, and irresistibly candid.”
—Emily Giffin, New York Times Best-Selling Author of Something Borrowed
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(The non-fiction companion, naming the 8 most destructive relationship dynamics and giving you the tools to finally break free.)
Break the Pattern. Burn the Fantasy. Reclaim Your Clarity.
Yeah, I said it — F-THIS. I’m done watching people destroy themselves in the name of “love.” I’ve seen it up close — the chaos, the gaslighting, the soul-shredding emotional bonds that hijack your nervous system and convince you it’s normal.
This book isn’t theory. It’s battle-tested. These are the same raw, real tools I’ve used to help clients around the world break free from emotional loops that keep them stuck. If your relationships feel like war zones, compulsive cycles, or haunted houses you can’t escape — you’re not crazy. You’re caught in a pattern. And it’s time to break it.
We’re calling out the 8 most destructive dynamics people normalize:
· The Stuck Partner – trapped in a long-term emotional stalemate
· The Love Drunk Rebounder – high on chemistry, low on clarity
· The Soulmate Fantasy Monster – intense, idealized, and destabilizing
· The Enmeshed Parent-Child Duo – where boundaries dissolve into guilt and control
· The Emotional Shutdown Partner – afraid to feel, resistant to connect
· The Partner-in-Crime Friendship – loyalty twisted into unhealthy attachment
· The Narcissistic Dynamic – a power imbalance that feeds off insecurity
· And The Self-Sabotager – the part of you that keeps choosing pain over peace
No sugarcoating. No spiritual bypassing. Just the truth — and practical tools to cut the cord and come back to yourself.
If your relationships are draining you — emotionally and mentally — this book is your wake-up call.
Let’s burn the fantasy.
Let’s face the patterns.
Let’s rebuild from truth.
You in?

HuffPost
Do me a favor. Think back to those first moments of falling in love with someone. Do you remember the tingles and the thrills when you saw or thought of them? What if they suddenly broke up with you and your relationship came crashing down? Or maybe you cheated on them, or they cheated on you — but you both stayed in the relationship. And even though you treated them like crap or they treated you like crap, you couldn’t stop being with them. You got back together like, eight times, and each time your self-esteem shrank.

Daily Beast
Excerpt from “Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict: A Novel.”
Give me a freaking break—I just turned 30, I was newly sober in Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), didn’t have a boyfriend, the television show I starred in had just got canceled and I was officially unemployed. To say I was a little depressed was underplaying the situation. More like I was miserable, lonely, and kind of tipsy from the afternoon champagne at the Hotel Bel Air.

Cosmopolitan UK
Have you ever found yourself sitting in a dark hotel room with a coworker in a foreign city on a work trip about to blow up your life? It was someone I hardly knew and quite frankly never liked as a person. You know that type of person— the one who's rude to waiting staff and thinks they're all that. That was me at one of my lowest points when I was thousands of miles away from my live-in boyfriend. I was then about to have another affair on a film set in the middle of nowhere.

The Drill
Imagine if Sex and the City’s Samantha discovered she was an addict and her drug of choice was MEN? Have you ever dreamed about being the high-society, proper Allie to a gorgeous but brooding Noah in The Notebook? Better yet, maybe you believed that someone had to bleed, take poison or die trying like in Romeo and Juliet to demonstrate that you’re true soulmates?

The Drill
Many Sex and love addicts can’t watch certain movies. We call it the NO-Go list. For me when I started the program of Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous eleven years ago, I had no idea that movies would transport me into completely fantasy.
As a fantasy and intrigue addict, that is not a place I’m allowed to live anymore. Roxanne, the anti-heroine, of my novel Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict has the same problem. Here is our list of No-Go movies! Enjoy the plight.

The Drill
One of my favorite past times these days is the act of revealing secrets. Mostly mine! And exposing the underbelly of our society through disclosing every kind of secret and shame we carry around with us.
One of the most common secrets in Hollywood is the unspoken behavior of on-set show-mances. As I pulled back the curtains of my own secrets and life in the concrete jungle of the entertainment business, I wrote about this secret society in my book.
“I thought I was ‘self-aware’ because I had done years of therapy. What I didn’t realize was how disconnected I still was from my core wounds. Brianne helped me go beneath the coping mechanisms and stories and get to the root. That work changed how I show up in every relationship, including the one I have with myself.”
K.T - CEO Fortune 500 Company (45)
“I’ve been in therapy on and off for over a decade, and I honestly thought I had gone as deep as I could. Working with Brianne cracked something open that years of talk therapy never touched. She helped me access my inner child wound in a way that felt safe, grounded, and profoundly healing. I didn’t just understand my pain intellectually—I finally felt it, processed it, and released it.”
A.J - Attorney (65)
“Brianne helped me leave a narcissistic relationship I couldn’t see clearly on my own. I was stuck in confusion, self-doubt, and trauma bonding. She didn’t just help me leave—she helped me understand why I stayed, heal the parts of me that were hooked, and rebuild my sense of self-trust. That alone was life-changing.”
M.L - Therapist (37)
“I had been in toxic relationships my entire adult life and couldn’t understand why I kept repeating the same patterns. Working with Brianne helped me identify the childhood wounds that were driving my choices. I finally broke free from the cycle and learned how to choose myself without guilt or fear.”
D.D. - Professional Fisherman (28)
“I had been in toxic relationships my entire adult life and couldn’t understand why I kept repeating the same patterns. Working with Brianne helped me identify the childhood wounds that were driving my choices. I finally broke free from the cycle and learned how to choose myself without guilt or fear.”
V.F. - Public Relations (40)
“I came to Brianne feeling stuck, exhausted, and frustrated with myself. I left with clarity, self-compassion, and tools that actually work in real life. I didn’t just heal old wounds—I stepped into the next level of my life with intention and self-trust.”
H.E. - Studio Executive (37)
“Working with Brianne was the turning point where everything clicked. I stopped abandoning myself, stopped chasing unavailable people, and stopped repeating the same emotional loops. This work didn’t just heal me—it elevated my entire life.”
L.S. - Executive Assistant (33)
“I didn’t realize how much of my life was being run by unhealed childhood wounds until I worked with Brianne. She helped me access places I had been protecting for years and finally feel safe enough to let go. The growth I experienced felt rapid, but also deeply integrated.”
M.L. - Teacher (52)
“This work helped me move out of survival mode and into expansion. I’m no longer reacting from old pain—I’m responding from clarity and self-respect. That shift alone changed my relationships, my work, and my sense of purpose.”
A.T. - Stylist (29)
Brianne Davis provides relationship and accountability coaching. She is not a licensed therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or medical provider. Coaching services are educational and goal-oriented and do not include diagnosis or treatment of mental health conditions.